Thursday, October 20, 2016

Busy Fall Week

So here we are winding up what has been another super busy week! I love October and all the fun stuff it brings! It sure can wear a busy momma out though! 
Monday- Austin was off...It was nice to finally have him off on a school day again. I love our family time but its nice to have couple time too. Well that morning I went grocery shopping after bringing the kids to school. When I got back and we put everything away he and I got out to run some errands. I always enjoy having him around for those things. We went to SAM's and then out to eat lunch. I was happy to get back to our lunch dates. That afternoon was busy...he went to get the kids and I stayed home and left a bit later bc I had parent/teacher conference with Colby's teacher. I was glad to get to meet with her even though she had assured me he is doing great! He had all As and Bs and 1 C this quarter! I was super proud of that! His C is in math so we are working hard on that on our off time. She said he is a wonderful student. We attributed the couple weeks worth of challenges in behavior to all that was/is going on with Austin's dad. Since then he has been doing much better. As long as he maintains positive points I told him I will be happy. That night Austin cooked steaks and potatoes for us then we took a walk. Again it was nice to have a nice family night and stay in. 
Tuesday- It was another routine day for us. Austin was back to work. I had volunteered to help the school count the cookie dough money. I met my friend ashley up there and it took us about 2 hours to get it all counted. It was nice visiting with her. I was happy to have a few hours to myself afterwards before picking the kids up. The afternoon was super hectic! We got home and did homework then ran out the door again to go to the school's open house. The kids were asked to be "model students" so we all had to be there. I picked them up Cane's and they ate outside before the open house started. After they ate I walked Lindsay to her room. Her teacher had asked a few kids to participate. I was proud of Lindsay! She was such a big girl and excited to help her teacher! I walked Colby upstairs. He split his time between the 2nd grade room and the computer lab. He of course was super independent. His friend Makyrin was there so he was happy about that. It was a wonderful evening. I had kind of been dreading it but I ended up having a great time. I enjoyed meeting some prospective families. 
Wednesday- This day ended up being a much slower day for me and for that I was thankful. Our house cleaner was supposed to come but she didn't show up. I was honestly a little relieved to have the day to myself. I love having a clean house but I don't love having to work around someone all day. I brought the kids to school then went to Aurora. We were practicing music for this upcoming Sunday to sing in church. I practiced first with the 4s and 5s then with the 3s. I finished up around 10 which was super. I stopped and picked myself up some soup for lunch and came on home. I really enjoyed the down time around the house. I was also able to rest and take it easy. I think after the busyness of the day before I was due a day of rest! My parents picked the kids up from school. I had already made the decision that we wouldn't be going to church. With being up there the night before I felt it best for the whole family if we came home to rest. Colby was upset at first but they both handled it well and I think were honestly a little relieved. They didn't have homework so they were able to spend more time outside. I was glad to get to cook jambalaya for us and just have the time to let them play. It seems like school nights are so busy for us there is rarely time for play. The only day I normally really get to see them play is Saturday. It was a nice change of pace for us all. I even let them stay up and watch Charlie Brown that night! 
Thursday- Another full day! The day began with Awards Day for Colby after dropping the kids off. This quarter he got Perfect Attendance. I was super happy for him! He's always bummed when he doesn't get anything. He is doing really well this year though bc he only missed honor roll by 2 points. I was thrilled to see him! After that I had to head over to Aurora and practice with my little preschoolers again for their singing on Sunday! I was so proud they did awesome! It was our first practice with them all together! They rocked it! I hope Sunday goes well! I know everyone will think they are just adorable! I once again finished up by about 11 so I came home and had a few hours to rest before going to get the kids. Thursdays are another busy afternoon bc we have to get homework done then dinner then head off to Scouts. I was a little worried we might not be able to go to Scouts b/c Colby had gotten 6 dojo points taken away in one day and he was hanging out at a 1. He was so happy to be back after missing 3 weeks so I was happy for him. We all went together which was nice. They spent some time talking about the upcoming campout. Once we split into dens our boys talked about some animals then did an activity about compost. I loved how into it Mrs. Melody got!! We are so thankful for her leadership. I think the boys had fun and learned a lot! 
Friday was another busy day! We had our house cleaner rescheduled for that day and I had a haircut at 11. I hated going late morning like that b/c when its in the middle of the day I feel like it takes up my entire day! I had to leave the house about 10:15 to stop by the bank first and I didn't get home until after 1:30. I was glad to have about an hour alone but that was all I got before going to get the kids. I picked them up then my parents actually got them from the school parking lot and took them home. We had scheduled them to spend the night since I had a conference at 4 and they had been wanting the kids to come over again! The conference went really well. The teacher said Lindsay is doing great! I was shocked she had this paper of formal assessments. She did pretty good on that. She still has some "math" that she needs to learn but her teacher thought it was more the way the questions were asked or that she was just shy and didn't necessarily want to talk even though she knew the answers. All in all I think we were pleased. Its such a different preschool then Aurora was though. I am just thankful she loves learning and seems to be thriving in this atmosphere. After the conference I came home to a quiet house. I missed the kids but it was nice to have a little while to myself. Austin got home around 6:30 and we ate and then took a walk. Looking forward to another weekend and ready to spend time with my kiddos! 


Weekend Life

I was so happy when the weekend arrived! It was such a busy week I was ready for a slow down and to take it easy. Once we got back home from the field trip Friday the kids and I were pretty beat so we were pretty lazy and mostly just watched tv. Austin brought home dinner that night and we did an abbreviated movie night. 
Saturday I was so happy to finally have a quiet Saturday morning with the kids. I did my usual blueberry muffin breakfast and we just took our time getting ready. I was able to do some cleaning which was helpful too. We were finally ready to get out the house about 10:45. We first stopped at the bank then Party City. We were in search for b-day invitations for Lindsay. We unfortunately lucked out so we went and had lunch at Chickfila. Sometimes I just really love my alone time with the kids. Its neat to just focus on them and watch them interact. After that we went to Target. We didn't find invitations but we did manage to find some other fun stuff. It was fun shopping with them. We got home and relaxing was the main thing on our agenda. I just love quiet Saturdays like that. I have so many friends who run around with sports and I am so thankful that we don't do that. I think the kids need the quiet and rest as much as I do. I love seeing them pull out all their toys and really use their imaginations. Its truly what rejuvenates me for the upcoming week! That afternoon my parents stopped by to visit with us for a bit and Austin got home early so we watched the USM game together! It was a fun evening! 
Sunday was a busy day for us. Thankfully austin was off. he had "counting" duties on Sunday. That meant I taught my class and he had to work both services. I had 6 kids I think in first service so it was pretty calm and quiet. We ended up staying for 2nd. Colby stayed upstairs and I brought Lindsay into church with me. She got restless during the sermon but Austin and my dad took her out for a bit and walked her around. We had to wait about 30 min after the sermon ended for Austin to finish up. I was proud of the kids how well they handled themselves though during that wait. Finally he came out and we were able to go eat. We went out to eat with my parents at Olive Branch. That afternoon we mostly just rested and caught up on house projects. 

Monday, October 17, 2016

Fall Break & Destin 2016

We just got home from a lovely trip to the beach. If you recall this is our 2nd beach trip this year. We took one in February for Mardi Gras and it was super cold!! The kids were out Wednesday-Friday this week and we decided it was a perfect time to head to the beach. I was so thankful for a long weekend and break with them. Its truly what I think we needed to heal from the craziness that was September. It was also a time of refreshment and rest before we head into the holiday season. 
Wednesday we got up early and were ready to hit the road by 9. We did our usual late stop for lunch at Ruby Tuesdays. The kids were great travelers and watched movies or just chilled during the trip. We were all starving by the time we got to lunch about 1:30. We had my parents and Randall and Lizzie on the trip as well which always makes it fun! We arrived at the condo around 3. We unpacked and got settled before taking the kids out to the beach. They were quite ready to get out to the water. The beach felt wonderful. It was in the 80s and the water was cool but not freezing. We stayed out there about 30+ minutes before heading to the pool. I let Austin get in with the kids and I just relaxed in the chair. The day of traveling there is always so tiring. We let them swim for about 30 minutes before heading up to clean up for dinner. By the time we changed and got to my parent's condo dinner was about ready. We had a lovely dinner that night of chicken, mac n cheese, and green beans. As always it was a great time of visiting and just being together. We were about 8:30 or after getting to our condo and getting the kids to bed. 
Thursday we did our usual get up and have breakfast in my parent's condo. We all work together and make a yummy and big breakfast! Its one of my favorite things. After a leisurely breakfast and visiting we set out to get dressed for the beach. It was so nice getting down to the beach and enjoying the chairs. The kids are at perfect ages now as far as being pretty independent and being able to play. The weather was amazing as well. We spent about 2 hours out on the beach before the kids were ready to move on to the pool. We let them swim for about an hour before going back up to the condo. We got cleaned up and went to make sandwiches for lunch. That afternoon Austin went back down to the beach and I stayed in the condo with the kids. I always enjoy a good nap there. The kids watched a movie and Colby played on the iPad some. We got cleaned up and ready for dinner at 5. We had plans to eat at the Back Porch but the line looked horrendous so we went further down to eat at Pompano Joe's. I was honestly a little excited for a change. It had been years since we had eaten there. The food was great and we ate outside. After that we went to the outdoor mall. The kids weren't quite as into it as they usually are. They both said they were too big to play on the playground. They did ride the train though. They also both enjoyed the boats and such at Bass Pro shop. It was nice out and the fall decorations were so cute. We went back to the condo though after that. I think we were all pretty tired. 
Friday was much of the same....big breakfast then time out on the beach. It was much hotter that day! We only stayed out on the beach about an hour and a half that day. Lindsay was done by that point and ready to head to the pool. My parents and I brought her down there to swim. We swam for awhile then the boys joined us. By the time they got there I was ready to get out. They played for awhile longer then everyone got out and we went to change and get ready for lunch. That afternoon the boys spent more time on the beach and Lindsay and I napped. I could tell by that day she was getting pretty tired and would need the down time to stay up later that night. We got ready around 5 again and just Austin and the kids and I went out for some family fun. First we went to eat at Johnny Rockets. It was ok but nothing too crazy to rave about. We then went to play putt putt. That was fun although the kids got tired of it by about hole 14! We then took Colby to ride a go-cart! He loved it! He was able to ride on the rookie track this time instead of the little preschool track he had drove on before. He was in little boy heaven! Lindsay wouldn't use her tickets to ride the preschool track. She didn't want to ride anything alone. After that the place was getting super crowded so we decided to head back to the condo. We had cookies and visited with the family for awhile before heading to bed.
Saturday we headed home...well not home for us but to Hattiesburg. We were able to stop for lunch all together before splitting directions. We arrived in Hattiesburg around 2. We unpacked and took a potty break at the apartment. After that we went to the facility where Austin's dad now is. The kids were a little hesitant but did well over all. I think Colby was relieved seeing that Pawpaw had actually improved and was up sitting in the recliner when we arrived. Lindsay was very hesitant. I didn't want to force her in the room. I think it was a combo of a new place and the room being full of people. It was his parents, his sister, Harvey, and Shelbi and Maggie. It was a lot. Once they all left and it was just us and his parents she livened up and came out of her shell. We hung out and visited a couple hours. Colby had taken a ride with Wendi and the girls back to their house for awhile. Once he got back we could tell Lindsay was ready to move on. We enjoyed our visit though. He even as access to the outdoors so we were able to take Lindsay out there some to stretch and run around. We took the kids to eat at Olive Garden that night. Once we got back to the apartment Austin went back to visit with his mom and dad while I stayed there and let the kids play and take baths. It was nice to finally be in for the night. 
Sunday we woke up early to head home! We knew it would be a long and busy day as well. We ate a quick breakfast at McDonald's before hitting the road. I can't say enough what great travelers our kids are! We got in and all got to work on unloading and unpacking. We ate lunch outside before then heading off to Lindsay's dance class. I felt like that was poor planning on my part. It was hard to think about getting out again but she so loved it! Their theme was Cinderella. She loves dancing so much but I just haven't been ready to sacrifice our Saturdays for something like that. I am thankful this is just once a month. After that we got home and were all ready to unwind and get ready for bed! 


Monday, October 3, 2016

Weekend Blessings

This week has felt like a true hug from God. Its been a weekend that I felt we all needed. 
Friday I was able to meet a friend for coffee. I love my coffee Fridays. It helps to just sit with another mom and hear stories and know that ok we are not alone in this thing called life of raising babies! After coffee I came home and put in some work around the house. That afternoon the kids and I went outside b/c it was such a beautiful day! We were expecting Austin home early and were looking forward to dinner together. Around 5 he called though and said he would be super late coming home b/c they had a flood at work. Well since I had no dinner plans the kids and I drove and picked up Chickfila. We ate our dinner then got baths and prepared to have movie night. I felt so bad for them with Austin being away so much that he couldn't make it for movie night. They were troopers though! We watched the new Jungle Book movie and we all 3 loved it! Once the movie ended I got them tucked into bed. Austin didn't get home until around 10pm. Poor guy was so tired! 
He had planned on going to Hattiesburg on Saturday for the day but with having such a late night I think he knew he didn't need to push it plus the kids really needed him home. We had promised Colby a donut picnic b/c he brought home all As and Bs on his progress report that week. We picked up donuts that morning and brought them to the Belle Chasse park. The kids had a blast playing and eating. It felt so good to just finally be together! The kids made Austin work the whole time but I think its b/c they have missed him so much!! We stayed out there for over an hour! The weather was beautiful as well! Afterward we decided to stop at a Farmer's Market to get a few produce items as well as some pumpkins to decorate with. The kids loved this as well! I love that they still love simple things like that! 
That afternoon we worked on little projects around the house and just rested and played. It was truly wonderful! It was the type of day I had been craving for so long! I felt like we were all truly happy and enjoyed being around each other! 
Sunday it was so great to go to church as a family! I was in a much better frame of mind then the Sunday before. I worked in preschool. We had 12 kids! It was the busiest I had been in awhile but we have a great group of kids. After church we went to get Mexican and then once again we spent the day together: resting, working, and playing! This weekend was truly a gift from God. I think he saw what need we were in and gave us this time. I think it helped the kids, and Austin and I prepare for a busy week! 

Sunday, October 2, 2016

Growing Pains And Fall Fever

This month has been quite a month for us all. Between just normal fall busyness and all that's been going on with Austin's dad...I just feel like its taken a toll on us all. 
Monday- I had to do the grocery shopping. I was really looking forward to just coming home after though and not doing anything. Well work around the house ofcourse but having a quiet day. I got a text that morning wanting to know if I could sub the 1 year old class. I told them no. I felt guilty but 1) I literally found out on my way to bring my own kids to school and was not dressed or prepared in any way and 2) I knew I needed to grocery shop and focus on the house that day. It really helped me to have that day mostly around the house. Austin was gone that night so it was just the kids and I. We had chicken tacos though and even took a walk so it ended up being a pretty nice day.
Tuesday- I had Bible study that morning. I was glad to go back to that. I always feel so refreshed after going. Its the one thing I do for myself so I like to keep that time of my week sacred. I just love being with the other women and working on our relationship with the Lord. That afternoon Austin got home. We were able to hang out and rest a bit before he went to get the kids. That night we just hung out at home and had grilled burgers. It felt nice to have him here and be together as a family.
Wednesday- Austin was off again. I was so happy to have him with us for a full day. That morning I brought the kids to school then went to run a couple errands. We had our maid here so between her being inside working and Austin working in the yard. We hung out at home. We spent a lot of time outside just visiting which was great. The kids got home and we were off to get ready for church. It was nice going to church as a family. That night in preschool though we only had 3 kids. We had Lindsay, Cohen (3) and Avalynn (1). I feel bad b/c Lindsay is basically in a class with "Babies". She did ok though and still seemed to have fun. We mostly spent the evening outside then came in to do one craft. I was glad we could get back to our church family though. 
Thursday- This was quite a busy day! i had an 8:15 meeting so the kids really had to get ourselves in gear. We had to leave the house by 7:30. I literally had to drop and run at their school. I got to the meeting on time and was the first teacher there. We basically just reviewed the October calendar. That morning music went well. It always wears me out but I enjoy it. I love my 4 and 5 year old class the most. They really get it and seem to enjoy it! We read "We are going on a Bear Hunt" and talked about rhythms and chanting. We've also been practicing our songs to sing in church. Once I got home I was glad to have a couple hours to myself. This day was really hard b/c I had watched Colby's behavior take a dive throughout the week. He had continually lost points to where on Thursday he had a 0. I had to make the tough call of keeping him home from scouts. I so badly hated to do it! Especially since that day was a Pack Meeting and he would be earning some awards. But I knew if we didn't we would be sending the message that what he was doing in school was ok. I fully believe a teacher/parent should be on the same page and support one another. I wanted to show support for his teacher and let her and him know that we were going to try to make some changes. He was upset but I think we still had a pretty ok night. He and I took a walk which was nice. 

Friday, September 30, 2016

Zoofari and other things...

We had a nice weekend last week and it was MUCH needed! I am already feeling a slight case of fall burn out so I truly treasure the weekends! 
Friday morning I had to run to SAM's and get a few things and then I met Ashley W for coffee. It was nice to have some girl time and helped pick up my mood a bit. 
Saturday Austin was working but the kids and I had a busy day planned. There was no sleeping in on Saturday! Colby had a ZooFari outting with Scouts. I had wished Austin could be with us. Since I had already purchased 4 tickets though we invited Ella to come along with us. We were out the house by 9 and picked Ella up by 9:15. We got the Zoo right at 10. We ran into Nijel and his family as soon as we got there. The kids were anxious to get in and start checking out the exhibits. We spent a lot of time at the Orangutans and the Elephants. It was super hot! The kids just enjoyed being together though! We had Colby (8), Ella (8), Nijel (8), Makyrin (8), Bryson (8), Mia (5), Lindsay (4) and Makylee (3)! So we had quite the group. After we made the loop with the Tigers and Bears we went on to the Reptile House. It took us awhile just to get anywhere with that large of a group. We spent a long time in the reptile house but it was nice b/c atleast it was cool and the kids were contained. by the time we got out of there everyone was getting hungry and tired. We stopped at the Scouting tents so they could work on a few science experiments. After that we all split up. Some went home and others went on to do other stuff. I took Ella, Colby, and Lindsay and we had a nice picnic lunch. It felt so good to sit down by that point. I was worn out!! After that we checked out the Sea Lions then made our way to the front and out the zoo. Ella had dance class at 1:30 so we had to have her back by that. I am not sure we would have ever been able to stay until 2 anyway. Once we got home I was just ready to RELAX. It felt good to nap and the kids needed that down time as well. That night we just stayed in and had a nice family night. 
Sunday was a hard day. I had a breakdown that morning. I guess all the stress, tiredness, and hormones just built up. It hit me hard when Colby woke up and we realized the "tooth fairy" forgot to come. That's when I melted down and realized I can't do it all. I know God is using this season of sadness and brokenness for his glory even though its hard and hurts. We went on to church even though honestly I just wanted to stay home. It was good..I was finally able to sit in church. I hadn't realized how much I had missed that feeling. After the kids and I just picked up lunch and came home to relax. Again it felt great just to not have anything on our agenda. That afternoon my parents came by to see the kids and I think they enjoyed that. We had a nice family evening once again! 

Thursday, September 29, 2016

Swimming/Drowning through Life

Wow, well this past week was quite a crazy one! Let me start at the beginning. So Monday....as you recall Austin went back up to Hattiesburg on Sunday afternoon. So Monday morning it was just the kids and I. It was also a particularly busy Monday b/c I had work. I was once again subbing for the kinder class at Aurora. I was thankful for the distraction and opportunity to work even though it meant a less then quiet day. I love that little class so! We had a great day again. They were just so super and sweet. They are learning about shapes and the letter C and also learning to write their names without tracing so that was the focus. I love though that play is still the main object at this school though so they got to play a lot too. They get about a 50 min recess. After work I had to go grocery shopping...UGH I never shop mid-day! Needless to say it was hot and miserable. I was so hungry and tired when I got home. Luckily when I got home though Austin was here to help me. We ate lunch together and rested before he went to go get the kids. I was thankful for his help so I could have a few quiet moments. That night we had a nice home cooked meal of fried pork chops, mashed potatoes, and green beans. It felt so good to eat as a family. We even took a walk after. 
Tuesday was another very busy day! The kids had Parent Visitation day at their school. This was actually my 4th one but Lindsay's 1st. Austin had to work so my mom came in his place and to be there for Colby. I knew I couldn't split myself fairly between the 2 so she came to be with him. I wanted to mostly hang with Lindsay since it was her very first one. After dropping the kids off we began the morning in the cafeteria for assembly. It was neat that we got to see this portion of their day. My mom and I stood near his class' table. I enjoyed getting to visit with his teacher briefly. After that time it was time for us to get with the classes. My mom left to follow Colby. I think they had chapel, art, and PE during that time. I went with Lindsay in her classroom. They began the day with chapel which was so beautiful and just what my heart needed. Seeing the kids worshiping and singing "How Great is Our God" while holding hands put me in tears. It was such a beautiful moment. I am so glad my kids are getting these moments in school. After chapel they went upstairs to library time. During that time their library teacher read them a book and they played some fun listening games. Normally library would be in the library obviously but due to the nature of the day it took place in a different local. After that they went back to class. It was neat to see how their classroom operates. They had snack time first. I just enjoyed watching Lindsay and how she interacts with her peers. After snack they had circle time. They went over their vowels and counting. I loved how they moved, sang, and did things out loud to keep their focus and attention. They did circle time for awhile before going back to their desks to work on a letter O page. Lindsay had no problem at all writing her Os. When they finished that it was time for me to go and switch with my mom. My mom got to come down and see her class sing a couple songs before joining them at recess. I went upstairs and Colby's class did a math minute quiz and then played a history review game. It was fun to also see him in action. Once I left there I came home to eat lunch and enjoy a couple hours of quiet before going to pick them up. 
Wednesday was a busy but fun day. Lindsay had a dentist appointment scheduled that day. I knew when I scheduled her appointment that I would just give her the day off school. Since she is in prek and they don't take attendance just yet I am not going to stress about when I make her appointments. I also figured once a month I will give her a free day anyway. So she and I re-lived one of our infamous preschool fun days. We stopped for coffee and a muffin. I then took her to Confetti Park to play. It was so lovely to just enjoy the early morning hour at the park with her. There weren't any other kids there. It made me sad a little b/c I think it shows how "busy" our society is that we just don't have time to take our littles to the park on a random morning anymore. When Colby was little and we would do this sort of thing there were always kids there. Anyway so she had a great time nonetheless. She dug in dirt, we spotted birds, spiders, butterflies, and other nature things! We stayed for about an hour and a half. Once we left we went to the dentist. She had an excellent cleaning and behaved like such a BIG girl! She has come a LONG way! So after that we had to go to the Pet Store to get some cat and dog food. She was super excited about that. I let her wander around a bit and look at the fish and kitties. It was really funny too b/c we ran into her friend Claire there! I think that made her day!! By the time we got out to the car Austin had called and wanted to meet us for lunch. I was already planning on picking up Chickfila for her so it worked out perfect! It was a nice treat to be able to visit with him in the middle of the day like that! That afternoon we relaxed...we had already planned on skipping church that night. Just with everything going on with Austin's dad and him being away so much I felt we needed time as a family at home. It was nice to have that night to sort of recover! 
Thursdays are always busy for me. I get the kids to school then go to Aurora to teach music class. I felt a lot more at ease this week being my 2nd week. The classes are so cute! The 3s I felt did a lot better this week although they are still exhausting at times. The 4s and 5s are awesome and really know the songs we are learning! The babies are just cute! There was a lot more this week so things were BUSY but it still went well since all 3 teachers stay with them. That afternoon I got the kids and we did homework. We left early to go to scouts. Since Austin was gone I promised then dinner at Wendy's. I was tired but we ended up having a good time nonetheless. I really wasn't a little sad and tired at Scouts. Not my usually bubbly self so I kinda stuck to myself. The boys worked more on their soap carvings. I was surprised when Austin got there! I had told him to go home and rest but he ended up meeting us and for that I was thankful! It was nice to be reunited!